From the TV series Side Order of Life:
Jenny: [to the server] I’ll have the Chinese chicken salad, dressing on the side.
Vivy: No! Get the dressing on the salad, no side orders, Jenny! [to the server] And she wants fries with that, to–
Jenny: No, I don’t.
Vivy: Yes you do! Want it, want all of it and ask for it! Look beyond what is right in front of you; life is the main course, the appetizer and the dessert. So get the dressing on the salad, and no side orders!
[Vivy is someone who has, just recently, discovered she has breast cancer]
I don’t watch this show, but this converstation has been stuck in my head since I caught the trailer months ago. Kind of reminds me that “Life is short; eat the dessert first.”